How do you deal with nosy people who get pleasure in telling you gossip...

deshane2530

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...about yourself,just to get a reaction? I am dealing with this right now. People are so mean and rude to me. I am starting not to trust anyone and it is affecting me emotionally. I feel so much unbelievable anger that I feel I will explode. I tend to not be assertive or think of a good come back when the say something to me.
The real reason I don't react is because I don't want to let them know that they got to me at all. There is where the problem lies. I could say so many mean things back to them but I don't want to stoop to their level. However I think it is a time for a dose of their own medicine, so they will see how it feels. I think that is what i will have to resort to as this has gone on for so long and does not stop. I mean where do you draw the line? Where do you tell them hey stop the madness!
 
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