How far can Catholics go with out having sex?

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jonesy

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Like which base?! I feel that oral is sex but that's just me. I am catholic and so is my boyfriend and we pretty much have only gotten making out.... It's only been 4 months. So what do you think?
 
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basketcase88

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I don't think having sex has anything to do with religion. Oh, in some religions (Catholic) it does, but IMO, it shouldn't. Are you ready to have sex? Are you ready to deal with the consequences of having sex? Are you prepared to get medical treatment if you should get an STD? Because just because someone says he/she's a virgin, doesn't mean it's true. Are you ready to deal with the implications of an unplanned (and possibly unwanted) pregnancy? Are you emotionally mature enough to deal with the emotional ties that sex has? Are you emotionally mature enough to deal with the breakup with this guy you've had sex with? If the answer to any of these questions is "no," or "I don't know," then you're not ready to have sex. And that doesn't matter if you're Catholic, Protestant, Jewish, Muslim, Buddhist or atheist.
 
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Becs

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Really? Do you think the bible would permit certain bases?
According to the catholic church, you pretty much can't do anything farther than kissing.
 
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KatZee

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As far as I know, it's the Christians who are the strictest in regards to sex before marriage. Every Catholic person I know has had sex before marriage.

Not to mention it's not your religion which determines how far you go. It's YOUR choice on how far you go and whether or not you are comfortable doing what you're doing .
 
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