I used to just let him get me in a hold, and then squeeze out from underneath him, and get him in a headlock, but now he holds me down and I lost the last time we played. He is about 160lbs I am about 80lbs. He beat me the last time, but I normally win. I am 5'0 he is 5'7. What are some good holds for a guy who is 7inches bigger and twice my weight, literally.