How to reconnect with her? I really want to show her I'm interested...but it's a...

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cellarghosts

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...weird situation, help please? The gist of the situation is that I waited too long to make a move (because I'm super nervous and shy) and now she got the idea (or so I assume) that I'm not interested and think I only like her as a friend. She's acting distant and not talkative at all. I really want to get through to her and let her know I like her and do something special for her to go that extra mile, in part to make up for me taking so long. She showed interest in me right off the bat and we got along perfectly, have a ton of things in common, and would pretty much be perfect together.

I just wanna get through to her and let her know what's up without being pushy or awkward about it. Like, I just want to fix this. I know she isn't seeing anyone right now and isn't talking to anyone, so I want to finally make my move. Should I ask her out for a Valentine's Day dinner or something? I'd love to do something sweet and special for her like that. Nothing extravagant since it's a first date, but something special nonetheless.

I just want to get through to her first, to get her attention. That way it isn't such a huge surprise when I let her know or ask her.
 
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Paulie

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that'd be perfect. :) just take her out to a nice restaurant or cook a homecooked meal that she'll love. A homecooked meal for valentine's day will show her that she's special to you and that you'll take time to make her her favorite meal :) and a simple HAND WRITTEN (not store bought, unless you also put a nice message inside it) letter will do for a valentine's present. and due to a survey that pyshologists have done, most women love this kind of gift. it shows that you mean alot to her and its the little things that make the biggest difference.
 
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Kelseybud17

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Maybe Valentines day isn't the best idea since it could freak her out, but you never know. You could always just ask her out for lunch which is sweet but doesn't make it too intense. If you see how that goes, she might warm up to the idea of going out with you and you can probably tell by the vibe she gives off if she will want to go on a dinner date or something more serious.

Hope that helps :]
 
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ANONYMOUS

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You should ask her out to be a Valentine's dinner. You sound really sweet and sh is probably only acting the way she is is because she MIGHT like you back and be shy too. That's the way i act around guys that i like..So just take initiative and ask her. Or you'll lose your chance! JUST GO FOR IT.
 
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