I am very interested in this young woman. Short background included!?

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Sometimes relationships and impressions can be given a fresh start or a person a new face. Once I worked with a beautiful young woman; I was mesmerized. I was young; so was she; but less experienced. My insecurities; my fear; these held me back from perusing my desires. After a while she left to another job. That was two years ago.

I've changed since those days. I saw her Twice recently. She looked at me and smiled; stretching her back and revealing the form and silhouette of her breasts against the sunlight emanating from the windows. I had remembered all that I had forgotten. Now my desire for her consumes me.

How best to approach her? How best to make her feel for me as I do for her.

Many of the people on here are so very young; children. The many will say "Ask her out" So often this leads to failure. I don't take risks or place bets until I am absolutely certain. I have to make her attracted to me first; then make my move.

How do I do that? What does a man do that causes you to feel 'attracted'.
 
Have the same problem most of the times... to shy and afraid of rejection.
rejection is a part of life, and you need to take risks to get what you want.

I'm not female or gay, but ill share my light on the question you have.

It's not to 'cause'... you are getting it wrong...how did you get attracted yo her? did she do something special to get your attraction?

It's who you are, you give out a sent of attraction with out knowing it... and people with the attraction to that will get attracted. She is or she is not attracted to you.... the friendly smiles and all are a good indication that she IS attracted to you. If not, she is not gonna crush you down and make you feel little... she'll be polite and what ever and tell you she is not into you.

that being said... I doubt she will reject you if you ask her out for coffee or dinner...

Curse of being a male is that you are often forced to make the first move.
GL M8
 
you cant make someone "be attracted" to you. they either are, or they arent. unless you want to try and cast a spell on her. it really is as simple as ASK HER OUT, and if shes interested, she would say yes. you dont have to say, will you be my girlfriend, just say do you feel like hanging out sometime, we can do blah blah...and it can be simple, fun and friendly. a few pointers that might help you, be a gentleman, help her take off her coat, or pull out the chair for her, open the door for her, etc. and definitely pay on the first date. and when you look at her and talk to her, look at her as though she is the only person in the whole room, dont look around or at other girls, that can make her feel insecure. good luck poet
 
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