have to pee? even after i go, i still feel like i have to go again! and it is like that most of the day and night! i pee before bed, then have to go a few more times before i fall asleep. its usually just a little bit, but it feels like i have to go alot more than that. im a 30 yr old female, healty, not diabetic, or pre diabetic, and it doesnt hurt or anything when i go. its been like this for a long time and I dont want to go on detrol or anything because of side effects...any advice on why i have this problem and what i can do