Its not that I never get orgasms, I get those, but not always. I only have them when sex is absolutely PERFECT and it is not always like that. I tried to tell my husband what I like, but after a while he told me not to because he feels like I'm bossing him. I like it when he does certain things to me (when he is in the mood), but this does not happen always. I am horney most of the time and so excited about sex, but when we start I get disappointed ( when he is not in the mood to do the things I want). I tried to do those things to myself, but it seems stressful and distracting me from enjoying it. I would be just thinking about how to get an orgasm and I wont get one once I'm thinking this way.
I know I am not supposed to think about weather I am going to get an orgasm or not, but I can not help it. It takes me a while to get an orgasm, and I know this requires extra effort from him, but what can I do? Even if he was done, he wont please me. I tried telling him, and he did it, but it was not good enough so I never asked again. Although I show him signs that I am not satisfied.
When I masturbate, I get an orgasm quite easily, but when I tried to tell him, he took it as if I was controlling.
I know I am not supposed to think about weather I am going to get an orgasm or not, but I can not help it. It takes me a while to get an orgasm, and I know this requires extra effort from him, but what can I do? Even if he was done, he wont please me. I tried telling him, and he did it, but it was not good enough so I never asked again. Although I show him signs that I am not satisfied.
When I masturbate, I get an orgasm quite easily, but when I tried to tell him, he took it as if I was controlling.