I feel guilty arguing with my mom?

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texasbelle

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Problem 1, makeup
I am in grade 7.
My friends ALL wear makeup.
But I am not allowed.
My friend gave me some but my mom found it and took it away!

Problem 2, bra
My Chest area is starting to look...ummm...bumpy.
I feel AWKWARDDD wearing Tshirts.
I think I NEED (not want) a Bra.
My friends think I need one too.
But mom has never bought me one I asked like 4 different times now.
I asked her last night and she got REALLY angry!
She said, don't be silly you don't need it, I'm not going to waste money don’t have money for things you don't need!!
She told me to wear my tank top!!! (which does NOT work btw)

I have two brothers.
I feel like my mom ignores my situations.
I fight with her a lot.
I feel bad about that.
Please help me?
 
My mom was always supportive with me growing up so I cant imagine going through that. I understand the make up thing. But the bra..just ask her nicely to get you only ONE bra, that way shes not spending too much money, and you can just wash it frequently.. if not, save up your money!
 
If I was you, I'd wear an extremely tight shirt to show off the little "bumps" forming. Well, I did that and my mom said "Oh, we need to get you a bra!"
 
HAHAHA. you dont have a BRA?? im in 7th grade and that would be TERRIBLE not to have a bra! i also wear makeup.. wellthat kinda sucks for you. Oh well, sit her down and stay calm
 
i think she just doesnt want you to grow up...if were you i would wear 2 tank tops. also about the makeup just say u get made fun of (tell her youll buy yur own bra)
 
Well your mother needs to realize that though makeup is not needed a bra is. Every girl needs a bra, even if it's only a training bra. Your chest will grow and if you don't get a bra to prepare your breasts will become 'saggy' as my family says or they till droop. You're in 7th grade, you are way past NEEDING a bra, I got my first training bra at 9.
And no, tank tops were not meant to help.
Makeup isn't needed, I am in High School and I rarely if ever wear makeup, maybe eyeliner on days when I'm not lazy but other than that none at all. In all reality it's just a pain and you're hiding your face behind a false one.

Maybe bring this up in a sense able way.
 
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