I have a question on survival or maintaining my current life style?

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So I recently heard that a friend of a friend is looking for a place to stay since he's getting a divorce. I'm about to begin the struggle to keep my house and/or maintaining my current lifestyle since I was laid off. So my question is would you allow a friend of a friend of yours to stay at your place just for the money? I know it'll be tough because I'm a quiet/shy loner and have lived alone my entire adult life. And he's a talker, smoker and has kids that will visit every other weekend. I like kids but mainly nieces and nephews that I can leave when they start crying and I hate smoke and he's a chain smoker. please help!!
 
umm no i wouldn't allow that friend of a friend try a different one because if you do live with him it will aggravate you and you won't feel comfortable in your own home which is bad and you'll eventually get rid of him but it might be harder to find a new roomate i say no!!! don't let him move in or whatever don't live with him seems like a bad idea plus you don't know the guy well enough to live with him and the whole kid situation seems kinda sticky to me so nope find someone else
 
I would advise you not to rent with this guy. It would cause too much conflict and cause you nothing but trouble. Not saying he's a bad guy. But when your 2 totally different ppl like that, it won't work out. If you want to rent out a room, put a add out, maybe in the local college?? Just an idea.
 
I would advise you not to rent with this guy. It would cause too much conflict and cause you nothing but trouble. Not saying he's a bad guy. But when your 2 totally different ppl like that, it won't work out. If you want to rent out a room, put a add out, maybe in the local college?? Just an idea.
 
I'm sorry to hear you were laid off. I hope you find something soon. See my advice..

1. no, do not rent to this guy.
2. you will hate each other if you do, because you are too different.
3. put an aid on craigslist or something and be specific of what type of roomy your looking for.
4. example, no smokers, no drugs, clean, no loud parties and responsible
5. draw up a contract and have them to sign it
6. if you don't smoke why would you want to live with a smoker???


Just because you need help asap and he needs help asap doesn't mean you help HIM. there are lots of people you can room with, but this guy is not it. I'd hate to see you on CNN for hitting him over the head with a baseball bat for being a chain smoker in your house..
 
if ur really his friend there should no doubt or any regrets of housing him

even if u have to deal with his bad smoking habits and crying kids
 
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