I have been seeing this girl for A LONG time and we are going on a caravan holiday?

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Sweetie, tell her.

You owe her the honesty.

When they sent you away, the fact that they didn't read between the lines is very worrying.

Having suffered by the hands of another, when I was younger, I can sympathise.
Tell your girlfriend, in relaxed atmoshpere.
Explain to her that you have something to tell her, and you don't want her to be alarmed by it. You don't want her to interrupt (as this will through you off, when you start telling her) just listen and comfort.

Tell her before the trip, that way, your mind, knowing youhave told another person, and spilled all, will probably feel lighter.

You can't let the b*stard that did whatever it was that screwed you up win. The release you will feel, from telling your girlfriend, will feel fab.

I just hope she is supportive for you in your time of need.

Good luck sweetie

Oh and Caravans rock!
 
Something happened to me as a child, all through my childhood REALLY, I have never told anyone why I have these night tremors which cause me to hit out and see my perpetrator. I went to a mental house (keep it quiet type thing) but they did not read between the lines. I REALLY DONT WANT TO HURT HER I HAVE LOVED HER FOREVER FFS! But she so looks forward to the caravan trip it's the scumbag who tortured me! I have bought her a ring for Valentines day but I am thinking of just breaking it off, I know the risks but what if I stay awake all night using proplus or sommit! Help
 
Tell her??

Don't Break It Off Thats A Little Silly

If You Like Her that Much.

Its in The wrong bit too

good look

x x x x
 
Bullshit, you know your limits get a hotel holiday with single beds LOL
 
Dont let a crazy thing like night tremors get in the way, if you love this person you love her, simple as, youre going to have to sleep in a room with someone else one day ;)
 
Tell her,
If it's a serious relationship you should tell her.
She will understand if she is the girl for you and at least she will be understanding about your disturbed sleep and not be scared.
You should share this with someone that you trust.
Good luck
xxxxx
 
You should tell her about it. If you have a good relationship you should be able to share things like this. And I'll bet she'll be so sympathetic and will want to help you, and look after you. And it will probably help you to share the problem too.
 
You've posted this in the wrong section. Re-post it in the relationship section & I'm sure you'll recieve more appropriate answers.

Whatever happens, good luck & don't give her the ring until you decide. lol
 
You've posted this in the wrong section. Re-post it in the relationship section & I'm sure you'll recieve more appropriate answers.

Whatever happens, good luck & don't give her the ring until you decide. lol
 
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