I just moved to a new school, and everyone's spreading rumors about me. Help?

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I just moved to a new school two months ago. I've been to a few parties and stuff, like I'm being social and hanging out and stuff. But lately a certain friend of mine is telling me all these horrible things people are saying about me. I don't know if she's lying or if she's telling the truth, but either way I'm getting very hurt. The people I've asked said they haven't heard such things at all. She'll randomly just say "this is what people are saying about you..." like I don't even ask. What do I do? How do I either get them to stop talking about me, or stop caring? And what should I do about her? Thanks in advance.
She told me that she thought she was being a good friend by telling me. But she also complained about how annoying it is that she always has to hear people talk bad about me.
I don't want more drama with her. I just want people to be nice you know? Moving midway through my junior year in high school was extremely difficult. I've only known her two months.
 
Are they things that she is spreading about you true? Also you have your whole life ahead of you and high school is not the best place to make friends nowadays, cuz trust and believe most of them are fake as hell and will stab you in the back at any given moment.
 
Well it is just to soon to tell if she is lying or being a friend. I would would not put much stock in her yet. I would not trust anyone yet. Don't say anything bad about anyone to her. She may spread what you say.
 
one thing is she telling you things that are true? How long have you know her? You should investigate her? Do the same thing to her and she what happens..tell her you heard somethings about her..
 
Quit school and get a job. You'll be better off in the long run.
 
Your 'friend' is a real B1tch passing this stuff on to you.

Seriously, what reason would she have for telling you negative stuff other people have said??

Sounds to me like she's really the one who doesn't like you. She obviously deriving some kind of pleasure from seeing that the passed on information is hurting you.

Drop her like a hot potato, or tell her you DON'T want to hear ANYTHING except again - and that if she really were her friend, she'd tell those people to shut up about you.

Seriously, find some new friends. Try your best to forget about what you've heard. Everybody (even you) talks S**t once in a while....it's not meant to harm the person it's about, usually, it's just stupid gossip kids engage in. (All Kids).

Hope this helps.
 
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