Comes With It =/? Me and this girl known each other for long time, we always liked each other, she actually asked me out for drink at one point but I rejected her as nervous and dumb, but we finally met and everything was great we connected really well and was kissing for hours on end, like midnight to sunrise, she was really Lovely with me she was my first and everything and I'd always be sweet with her. she was really open to me about how she has been cheated in the past, abused even and this girl just had string of bad relationships, saying she hates love and she must feel she is not worth me coz she said I'm to good for her. This is where she started acting distant you know, but after a while she said for us to meet soon so I figured things are ok now.
Well 3 days after sleeping with each other, her laying beside me I find out she went on a date saying she just wants to find right guy saying if she was just seing me she might as well of got with me? and jumps in a relationship with him, like she is running away from me or something?
She actually rang me about it, to talk it over she is saying she needs someone that can understand and lived a life like hers, like she still lives in past I told her no you need someone that can see the good in you and love you but she just wasn't having it, saying me and her are different people and how I'd make someone a Lovely boyfriend.
Fast forward 1 month of 0 contact between us, she is single again, she was saying to her friends it just wasn't working out, it just didn't feel right....What does this mean? This has to be something to do with me right? they broke up last friday lmao so that lasted what, a month? were both 20 btw, and I honestly think she is scared to get close to me, and because she don't have a father figure and her mom is an alcholic so maybe that's why she is a bit silly? But when she was with me like I said, she was so lovley around me like i bought out best in her?
Should I contact her because I feel she won't coz she feels I can do better and she don't deserve me etc. And with xmas coming up soon I just want to do something nice to show she is worth me and I'd love to just be with her, my friends are like let her come to you, others are like I should talk to her and say something like if you wanna give us a go I'd love that but...I just don't know
Well 3 days after sleeping with each other, her laying beside me I find out she went on a date saying she just wants to find right guy saying if she was just seing me she might as well of got with me? and jumps in a relationship with him, like she is running away from me or something?
She actually rang me about it, to talk it over she is saying she needs someone that can understand and lived a life like hers, like she still lives in past I told her no you need someone that can see the good in you and love you but she just wasn't having it, saying me and her are different people and how I'd make someone a Lovely boyfriend.
Fast forward 1 month of 0 contact between us, she is single again, she was saying to her friends it just wasn't working out, it just didn't feel right....What does this mean? This has to be something to do with me right? they broke up last friday lmao so that lasted what, a month? were both 20 btw, and I honestly think she is scared to get close to me, and because she don't have a father figure and her mom is an alcholic so maybe that's why she is a bit silly? But when she was with me like I said, she was so lovley around me like i bought out best in her?
Should I contact her because I feel she won't coz she feels I can do better and she don't deserve me etc. And with xmas coming up soon I just want to do something nice to show she is worth me and I'd love to just be with her, my friends are like let her come to you, others are like I should talk to her and say something like if you wanna give us a go I'd love that but...I just don't know