I need advice on how to stop arguing with my long term boyfriend?

[Elizabeth]

My boyfriend and I have been together for a little over 2 years and in the beginning it was great and then about a year and a half ago I started acting out, I went to the doctors and was diagnosed as bi-polar. My boyfriend says he understands some of my behavior is uncontrollable but he seems to loose his temper with it very quickly. WE fight to no end it seems like we are always arguing over stupid things and not getting anywhere. Neither one of us want to argue anymore and would like to try to work things out and maybe even get married someday but this constant fighting has to stop before we can do this. There is a lot more on the line than just our relationship we have three kids and we have never gotten physical with each other. I would really appreciate help on how to defuse situations that could turn in to argument or maybe some coping skills from people with my disorder. Anyone who has any advice or help in this please give me your help. Thank you for reading.

 

[KeyshaJ]

Maybe you and him can go and get some help like can go to a angry class or go to see a someone who can help you all. But you need to ask yourself do you really love or still be with him in relateship. Because if still with him because he is your kids father then that a sad excess to still be with him. But are you two still together because you all love each and try to work things out then that good. You need to see a doctor and take your pills but if what you taking is not working good for you then you need to go ans see another doctor and tell him you need something stronger to help with your bi-polar and he need to go to get some help also because he can stop getting so upset with you. Also you two need to go somewhere where you and him can get help to understand each more.