There seems to be a real disconnect on eHarmony...this guy seemed to find time in his day to communicate with me...a couple of days later he asks me out. We've made plans to meet this week but the details are not set. Now he can't seem to find the time to communicate. I can't help but feel that this might be a sign of what's to come...and if so, why on earth should I even bother meeting him at all?