I think my mom hates my dad!?

[mieraf_gt]

We just moved here to the US about 5 months ago but my dad went back home because he had a better job there. So now it's just me, my mother and my little brother. The thing is lately my mom has turned very bitter. Every little thing flips her out. But she never gets mad at my brother. I'm always the one that she yells at and as if that's not enough, when we mention my dad's name or after we talked to him she gets all mad and start yelling an snapping at us for no reason at all. My brother never gets it, though. She has never said anything to him. Well no one has ever said anything to him just because he is still "young" his only a year younger than me. I've tried to talk to her but it made it worth than ever so I gave up on that. And I don't know what to do. I don't want to tell my dad coz I don't want to worry him. My friends will never understand nor does my brother and my other relatives that live here. I just don't have anybody to talk to and it feels like I'm losing my mind and somewhat my fault because if it's not then why does she yell at me constantly.So I got myself immersed more than ever in my hobby to escape my life but my mom hates it too and it seems to stir up more fights. So please help me do you have any ideas? because honestly if this keeps going on I'm gonna end up in a mental ward in no time. And besides I can't keep running away from reality so please any advice?
Thanks

 

[justagirlm1]

ya, i would talk to your dad because its not fair for him to be worry free when you're going thru all this crap. i know how that is though, with mom;s being all angry at their kids and stuff. my mom moved here from japan and she never gets to see her family and sometimes she blames it on my dad. but i just try to be there for her when she needs to rant. but you have to draw a line between respceting your parents and respectring yourself. because you neeed to get some of that stressful energy out of you. maybe try writing about it. ranting through writing helps me a lot when im frustrated and all that. and maybe you should tell her straight out to stop yelling at you and bringing out her anger on YOU! she might get mad but im sure she'll think about it later.