I want to force myself to be a lesbian...?

[loop]

Haha i know this sounds weird but is it possible to become lesbian? Like willingly become a lesbian?
I'm sick of men. Every guy i've encountered are jerks...selfish..and they're so shallow. they're like dogs in heat!
I think men just don't get women and feel i'd be happier in a same sex relationship

 

[oryx_krissy]

You can't force sexuality...

I get what you are saying and you can try a same sex relationship but don't be surprised if it doesn't feel "right" for you.

As for the guys thing, it takes two to tango. Perhaps your choice of men needs to be evaluated? Why don't you try dating a man you normally wouldn't?

 

[LostInlove]

that is how some people find out that they are lesbians.

 

[Mischa]

each to their own.

 

[getlatldiz]

i mean it wont be easy, but maybe watch some porn of all girls and see if it turns you on and that should tell you if it possible to become lesbian. Honestly, it all depends on you, and what you prefer..your attracted to men now so changing will be difficult but can happen
good luck

 

[nicolette]

Honestly guys do have their flaws but obviously you'll also have problems with girls.
Girls are shallow too, when looking for a relationship, they are also catty, bitchy, coniving.
Girls have a lot more emotions, and are easily jealous.
Relationships with women have just as much problems as relationships with men, AND its even worse if your not even attracted to women like you are to men!
Trust me ive encountered the worst of men, the sickest, most disgusting lying kinds.
But thats why im just taking a break from men, when the right one comes along you'll know it!
Plus if you get into a relationship with a women and you realize thats not the sex you want, you could hurt her! If youve never been into women sexually, I suggest keeping with men, but just taking a break from them.
Focus on yourself
and if you really wanna be a lesbian, experiment with women first, but dont get into a relationship until you know that women in what you want.
You cant force anything really! either way your real and true feelings will come out eventually and could hurt the person your with!

 

[tCarat]

Are you even attracted to other women? If not you might want to rethink this. You can't "force" yourself to be attracted to someone else, you either are or you're not. Although admittedly I'm in the same boat as you. Men are pigs.

 

[Pixiep]

Well plenty of gay people CHOOSE to act strait. Date the opposite sex, get married etc...

I am sure you can choose that but if you still like dick then you are strait no matter who you date.

 

[CYNTHIA]

its your choice but i don't think you should give up on men just for other guys mistakes. you never know you might find the right guy later on, just keep on looking.

 

[Spock]

so you pick only shallow men when look for guy that will listen to you.

 

[Brandizzle]

You can always just enter into a relationship with a woman, but quite honestly I don't think that you can force yourself to be attracted to women. But you can always give it shot, though there are plenty of men out there who aren't selfish jerks.

 

[chocoboy]

In my opinion,you should search longer for your Mr.Right.Not all guys are jerks

 

[JoshK]

bitches be crazy

 

[sonny]

your choice, and yes. you can force yourself into anything. but you can find the right guy at one point of you search longer.