will marry my new husband I hav? I was married twice before but I wish not to tell my 3 future husband. After I will marry my new husband I have to file application for his Green Card and later he has to file for citizenship. On both of the applications they ask for prior marriages. Is it possible for me to send USCIS separate letter listing of my prior marriages and requesting that info not to be share my new husband?
I was married twice before but I wish not to tell my 3 future husband. After I
BarbOuthere
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Don't marry him without being honest with him. If he can't handle the fact that you have been married before, then he's not the right one for you.
If you choose to start this marriage with a HUGE LIE, then how well do you think that bodes for the future health of this relationship? And what do you think will happen IF he does find out? Family, friends must know, so what if one lets it slip, or an Ex turns up again?
By the way the government might ask interesting questions if they know you are choosing to hide your past marital status from him.
If you choose to start this marriage with a HUGE LIE, then how well do you think that bodes for the future health of this relationship? And what do you think will happen IF he does find out? Family, friends must know, so what if one lets it slip, or an Ex turns up again?
By the way the government might ask interesting questions if they know you are choosing to hide your past marital status from him.
Mikki
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Sounds like a bad start to a marriage if you don't tell him that. It will come out eventually, so it is better if he hears it from you.
A LOT of us have been married a few times! You're far from being alone, believe me. It's also not a good idea to start off a marriage based on "non truths'. You MUST be open & honest with him. There are so many reasons why marriages don't last, I know, I've been married 3 times & now have been with the same person 22 yrs.!!! And not married may I add! Doesn't make a bit of difference to us tho. Honesty is ALWAYS the very best policy throughout life. You never know when it could come back & haunt you! Don't take that chance! He's not going to love you any less, IF he does, then you'll know for sure it wasn't meant to be, you don't want a 4th divorce, that's for sure. Honesty IS the best policy...best to you...
gomisterg2003
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So, you want to lie to your next husband.
You are lying to yourself honey, if you think this 3rd marriage will work without telling the truth from the beginning.
The problem is you, not the men in your marriages.
You are lying to yourself honey, if you think this 3rd marriage will work without telling the truth from the beginning.
The problem is you, not the men in your marriages.
Honestly, I don't think that is something you should hide that from your husband. And it might also look suspicious to the USCIS asking them to keep the info from your husband.
You are marrying the guy. Marriage is built on trust and commitment. You aren't starting your marriage off well when you start by lying or keeping things from him.
You are marrying the guy. Marriage is built on trust and commitment. You aren't starting your marriage off well when you start by lying or keeping things from him.