...lesbian after all? I was debating this with a friend. She has had a horrible time in love. She hasn't been on a date in ages and has sort of given up on finding true love. She came out as lesbian about 10 years ago.
I said she just hasn't met the right person, doesn't get out enough and has her standards set a tad high. She agreed but thought that maybe she's not lesbian after all otherwise she thought she'd have had a lover by now. Is this possible? She is sort of butch. I don't think you have to be with someone to prove your sexuality, do you?
Yeah, I agree. I don't think it means she isn't gay. She just hasn't connected with someone who has always connected with her, is single and is willing to have a relationship. She has fallen for women before but it wasn't mutual etc.
I said she just hasn't met the right person, doesn't get out enough and has her standards set a tad high. She agreed but thought that maybe she's not lesbian after all otherwise she thought she'd have had a lover by now. Is this possible? She is sort of butch. I don't think you have to be with someone to prove your sexuality, do you?
Yeah, I agree. I don't think it means she isn't gay. She just hasn't connected with someone who has always connected with her, is single and is willing to have a relationship. She has fallen for women before but it wasn't mutual etc.