If he says to you he doesn't want kids now, but in the future, but then says he would want to have a kid with me now, but says it is weird to talk about that now too? It is such a mixed message because he talks about it, but then says it is weird for us to talk about it. Then he has me meet his whole family and go out with him and his mom. He made me dinner for him and his mom. He had me over for dinner alone too and made dinner. Does he sound serious, devoted, and a good catch?