freezinggirl
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- Oct 21, 2010
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think I came to have sex there? I was 18. I came from Russia. I was VERY unhappy. My mother died by that time. I did not have friends in my home country either. I did not in fact have any plan and first got into a host family (which I paid for) and they did not like and even called a counselor of the college to talk to me to help find a room for rent because they asked me to move out and I could not find it on my own by the time they asked (the gave me little time!)
So I came to that counselor and told him about myself -- that I was very unhappy. That I came to study at a university in a different state first and was going to be sponsored by a nonprofit organization but that did not work out and I went to a comm. college on my own then (after having returned to russia!). I did not have money for a university and hoped to get scholarships (I have a disability as well so thought maybe that would help with scholarships....)
Then, in 3 quarters that counselor saw me and gave me very strange looks, another time he pretended not to know me.
So when I arrived to the USA a 2nd time i did not know that comm colleges have a reputation for students getting involved into promiscuous sex. I did not have any sex at all there! But, does this make sense what I am asking? Thanks!
I just feel like I ruined my life because people might have thought I am a disgusting person or something.
So I came to that counselor and told him about myself -- that I was very unhappy. That I came to study at a university in a different state first and was going to be sponsored by a nonprofit organization but that did not work out and I went to a comm. college on my own then (after having returned to russia!). I did not have money for a university and hoped to get scholarships (I have a disability as well so thought maybe that would help with scholarships....)
Then, in 3 quarters that counselor saw me and gave me very strange looks, another time he pretended not to know me.
So when I arrived to the USA a 2nd time i did not know that comm colleges have a reputation for students getting involved into promiscuous sex. I did not have any sex at all there! But, does this make sense what I am asking? Thanks!
I just feel like I ruined my life because people might have thought I am a disgusting person or something.