and he says he needs space? I caught my husband chatting on-line with a mutual friend of ours on a social network, he was hiding it from me. The subject matter was disturbing and we argued some then he said he needed some space so he went to a by the week motel. now 3.5 days later he telling me maybe we got married to fast, we should have dated longer, he don't know what he wants, he doesn't know why I get so angry when I catch him doing this, he talks sexual, about how he is in the bedroom, the things he would do etc. He says he doesn't know about marriage but he wants to come back, he loves me but we should have waited, he don't know what he wants but he loves me and wants to come back and is coming back. He wants to keep chatting promising me thats all it is and that he will never act on anything. I am older than him and know he can't know that and especially now I think in the right situation he may leave based on a future chatting session. He cannot understand the big deal in chatting and meeting friends on-line and why I get upset. He hides it from me and lies until and if I find it. what should I do?