My girlfriend and I have been together for 2 years in a very serious relationship. She has 3 kids. I have 1. She's 30 and I'm 28. Last week we got into a fight. She was saying disturbing things about my daughters mother in front of her and I found it inappropriate. I told her that she either needed to stop or she should go home. She came unglued. Packed all her stuff and said we were through. I text her all night after she left. We were supposed to be going out of town the next morning. She didn't want to go from the beginning and seem overly concerned that we WERE leaving.
The next morning I got a text asking how the roads were going out of town.(like she was making sure I had left). I hadn't and asked her to go with us. She said that she wasn't leaving her home and had cleaning/laundry to do all day. I stopped by her house and she was laying on the couch not doing anything but texting someone else. She wouldn't tell me who. When I left I put a nasty note in her van (I know kinda immature). She must have been waiting to leave cause she text me shortly after I left about the note. Long story short, I think she is seeing someone else. All signs point to this in my eyes.
So for the last week I have sat at home. I can't eat. I can't sleep. I am total wreck. The pain that I feel is so bad. I can't imagine her doing anything with someone else. It tears me apart inside just thinking of her kissing or touching someone else. My heart has been beating for the last week but just barely.
She hasn't stopped by, called, or text me. I tried getting a hold of her but she wont respond. This is killing me. How do I make this pain go away?
The next morning I got a text asking how the roads were going out of town.(like she was making sure I had left). I hadn't and asked her to go with us. She said that she wasn't leaving her home and had cleaning/laundry to do all day. I stopped by her house and she was laying on the couch not doing anything but texting someone else. She wouldn't tell me who. When I left I put a nasty note in her van (I know kinda immature). She must have been waiting to leave cause she text me shortly after I left about the note. Long story short, I think she is seeing someone else. All signs point to this in my eyes.
So for the last week I have sat at home. I can't eat. I can't sleep. I am total wreck. The pain that I feel is so bad. I can't imagine her doing anything with someone else. It tears me apart inside just thinking of her kissing or touching someone else. My heart has been beating for the last week but just barely.
She hasn't stopped by, called, or text me. I tried getting a hold of her but she wont respond. This is killing me. How do I make this pain go away?