I'm meeting my mom for the FIRST time?

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My parents never really got a divorce (they weren't married). My mom gave birth and my parents were happy and was thinking of getting married. Under some circumstance, my mom had to move somewhere and leave me and my dad. My dad is perfectly fine with it and it seems like they chatted together and e-mailed each other until my mom said she really wanted to see me to the point that she wanted to die.

I'm going to meet my mom next week (something I've always wanted to do). I haven't seen her for 18 years. I don't know what I should do or how I should act... some advices please?
 
be yourself. I understand that u are a little stressed, but she loves because you are his son. whatever you will do, she will always loves u.
 
Just remember she is probably just as nervous as you, if not more. She is probably scared to death that you hate her for being gone. Just relax and be ready for whatever is meant to be. She may be a big part of your life from now on, or you may be better off without her. No one knows. I have always been skeptical of ppl meeting their parents for the first time.... thinking that the parent will never live up to what the children want. BUT I personally know a girl who recently travelled from Illinois to Florida to meet her mom for the first time (she's in her 20's)....... I got a text from her saying it was better than she had ever imagined and things were wonderful. She is so happy now. So, just go with an open mind and ready to forgive if she asks for it. I wish you the best of luck!
 
well...... If I was you, I would talk to your dad about this. Your father might give you some info about your mother and he can explan what she is like to you. There must be a very strong reason why she had to leave you at such a young age. If your dad DOSEN'T know anything about her, here's what you do. Try not to worry and just relax, don't become stressed or nervous to see her. Wait intel you both meet face-to-face, and when you do, give her a hug and tell her how much you missed her and let it all out. This will be very emotional, but let it all out and show her all of your love to her. Tell her about yourself and how you came a along way, talk to her and express yourself to her. Remember: Don't worry. Be happy.
 
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