i'm paranoid that i'm a lesbian!!?

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jdhdns

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I don't look at girls sexually and have never liked a girl in that way, but in my head i'm always telling myself maybe i'm a lesbian, i have no idea why, i think it's because i'm so paranoid about not being one i think about it too much. But it's starting to annoy me cause im always thinking about it and hoping i never give off that vibe. (i don't have any problems with lesbians, i just don't want to be one myself)

help please...anyone else feel like this??
 
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pyro

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If you don't look at girls sexually, you have nothing to worry about! You have complete mind power over that situation. If you don't want to be one..you're not one! I'm not sure how old you are, but if you're a teenager, then more than likely it's just a normal phase that EVERYONE secretly goes through! All people go through a mini "Identity crisis" and begin thinking crazy things of themselves at one point or another. You don't have to worry about giving off that vibe if you never even "look at a girl sexually", like you said. But that doesn't mean you should be afraid to give your girlie pals a hug either, because then you may seem like you're afraid of something!

The bottom line is: just relax! Relax your mind and your active thoughts and just be YOU! =)
 
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