im single and want to mingle, but is it bad i want to do....?

Kimberly

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is it bad i want to do this? my gf and i broke up and it was a BAD breakup. really bad. and now we rnt talking at all and... ive never cried so much over a girl then this one. i was so hurt wen it happened. but now im getting better and i want to flirt and to date and to have fun. is tht bad? is it too soon? we broke up 2 weeks ago. im 17 btw and shes 16... wen we broke up i felt so ugly. i want to feel beautiful again... wat shud i do?
 
You Should Go Out To A Gay Bar And Flirt Your Little Tooshy off!
 
It's not really so don't get strewn out over it.What I'm about to say is corny,cliché,but undoubtedly true.If she meant that much to you,and it still stings like a hundred angry scorpions,leave her a message on her cell and TELL her.Guilt will most likely form in her heart.Anyway,it's not a bad thing to want to go on the hunt again,lots of people do I'm sure.All that can be recommended is just go out and have fun.Get tipsy,find a girl you know nothing about,have make up *bleep* (always helps to forget),then do it all over again the next day but look for someone you can click with that will reciprocate the same feelings.Above all that though,have FUN!
 
*looks at answer above* Gay bar? She's underage :P

It's normal to feel that way. Yes you do need to move on, and yes it's okay to have a rebound. Just make sure you understand yourself and your feelings. Don't go around nuts having fun without taking some time to check up on how you're feeling.

It takes time to recover fully from a heartbreak.
 
Getting over someone is really hard to do. Sometimes it feels like we'll never get over ex's and move on. It's not bad to move on from the hurt and it's not bad to want to feel happy. You don't have to forget her or forget what was felt between you two. If you guys aren't talking, maybe(probably a really big maybe) she shouldn't be in your life. If you want to feel beautiful again, try doing something that you enjoy, like sports or going out and having fun. Things do get better, in time, and with a little bit of hope and confidence. It may not feel like it now, but things will get better.
 
It's not a bad thing at all go out, find a new person to love and just have fun ;) good luck <3
 
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