I think is too early, u should keep the relarionship interesting, n maybe let him ask to have sex. But if u guys love each other well he will still respect u n love u no matter what
i want to lose my virginity to my bf of 3 months. we love each other and hes kind and pacient.
but i feel like giving it up too soon will make him lose respect for me or get bored with the relationship.
hes positively infatuated, invites me everywhere, his family loves me, he gushes about marriage and traveling and children. hes kinda clilngy. none of this bothers me at all. its just how he is.
what do you think? will sex after 3 months affect this in a pos or neg way? I WORRIeD
IM 18... i have self respect.
There is no completely correct answer to your question. For some combinations of people, 3 months is too fast. For other combinations of people, it's not fast enough......people actually start thinking you don't love them if you don't have sex with them.......In my book that's a little sick but people have a right to feel any way they wish.
You are 18 now.....You are an adult now.......think hard and make a great decision for you and your future.
If he really loves you and wants to have a family with you, get then married THEN have sex. Too many easy girls these days. Have some respect for yourself.
Honestly I don't think that's long enough. It might be okay if you weren't a virgin, but since you are I feel that you should just wait longer. Maybe 8 months or a year hopefully. You should feel incredibly secure in a relationship before you lose your virginity: just so you can look back on it fondly whether it lasts or doesn't.