My 'push' present after my 2nd was a Honda Element. I absolutely LOOOOOVE it. I didn't wanna do the minivan thing to be honest, but they do look soconvenient. But do you really need all that space with two kids? We had a Blazer with our 1st and it worked out really well too. Could you try renting a suv or a minivan for a week or so to get the idea? Or borrow one from a friend for a day or just tag along in it to get the idea? Good luck, let us know what you decide.