...in a public swimming pool...? Basically, when we're in a swimming pool I go under water, swim up to her and pull her swimming bikini bottoms down so she's half naked. I find it funny, but the other day I did it and she got out of the pool crying, because I humiliated her in front of strangers. I feel bad now, but thinking back about it, it was only a joke. Do you think that's wrong of me to do that? Or has she taken it too seriously?