Is it better to take things slow or fast in a relationship?

violetdreams

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Me and my crush have always been really secretive about each other, like we have an unspoken attraction to each other from far away but when we're together we just act like friends, we laugh so much and we both act like we dont care about each other but when we're far away we stare at each other and blush and the rest of it.

This is my 'slow' relationship, and I always thought this was better really. But then my friend started texting this guy and theyre going to a party together tonight and tbh this seems better than my situation? Okay maybe she is rushing it a bit but if you rush it at least you know where you stand with each other?

Whats better?
 
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