Excuse that horribly worded question.
But anyways, (Q#1) I'm just wondering if YOU would get angry/hurt/betrayed if your friend went out with someone that you used to like/dated/had a short "thing" with.
My friend used to like this guy (we're both friends with him now) and they had a short thing with each other, but it ended up with my friend being hurt by him. (nothing bad, he just didn't reciprocate her feelings) It's been awhile since she's liked him, the most recent time they were together was some time last year... So my friend met another guy and they're together now.
So I was wondering if she would still be mad if she found out that I liked the guy she used to like, or if we were dating or something. It's nothing big, I just started thinking about him a lot and started imagining things, but it's one of those crushes where "you think he likes you and then you start liking him." thing. So it's not for sure. I don't want to pursue him because of my friend, but yeah... I can't stop thinking about him now, so I thought I could get some input from a couple friendly strangers to help me deal with this.
Thanks. Sorry for the long read.
But anyways, (Q#1) I'm just wondering if YOU would get angry/hurt/betrayed if your friend went out with someone that you used to like/dated/had a short "thing" with.
My friend used to like this guy (we're both friends with him now) and they had a short thing with each other, but it ended up with my friend being hurt by him. (nothing bad, he just didn't reciprocate her feelings) It's been awhile since she's liked him, the most recent time they were together was some time last year... So my friend met another guy and they're together now.
So I was wondering if she would still be mad if she found out that I liked the guy she used to like, or if we were dating or something. It's nothing big, I just started thinking about him a lot and started imagining things, but it's one of those crushes where "you think he likes you and then you start liking him." thing. So it's not for sure. I don't want to pursue him because of my friend, but yeah... I can't stop thinking about him now, so I thought I could get some input from a couple friendly strangers to help me deal with this.
Thanks. Sorry for the long read.