Is my girlfriend ignoring me/losing interest?

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FAN

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Note: I'm not sure if she even is my girlfriend.

We've gone out three times. She had been texting me daily prior to the third date. Since the third date (2 days ago) she has not contacted me.

3rd date: She took me out with her friends, but she didn't introduce me to them and pretty much ignored me the whole time. Afterward, she was somewhat drunk, but behaved distantly towards me. We ended up kissing for an extended period, while rolling around in bed, with me 'petting' her. She had earlier expressed to me that she wanted to 'take things slow', so I asked her if what we were leading ourselves towards was okay (even though she seemed quite excited). Well, asking this ended things flat - she did not verbally answer me, but just kind of rolled over. The next morning she seemed distant towards me again.

Later that day I asked her out via text, and she declined without offering an alternative date. I then called her, to which she accepted an alternate date, but seemed indifferent towards me.

So... is my gf ignoring me/losing interest? And what should I do?
 
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Kevin

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THIS WILL BE VERY DIFFICULT:

I think you won't follow my plan...but I have a lot of experience with it. Honestly the best thing you can do (and it's extremely hard)...is to lose contact with her. I think you definitely are smothering. Don't always ask questions...like about what is leading ourselves towards was ok...just for it...what's in the moment...is in the moment...don't question it...she hated that for sure.

You shouldn't call or text her....no matter the urge. This will ultimately prove her worth...either she messages/calls you...or she doesn't. If she texts or calls you with a date offer (don't answer/respond right away)...wait an hour or two...and message/call her back and say...you have plans that night (regardless of if you do or not)...and then say....we'll do this...on this date and time (don't ask her when or give her the option....TELL HER)....be a man and take charge.

If she DOESN'T call/text you...she wasn't THAT interested in you...and you just have to move on. A girl will always prove her worth. You may have already blown it...don't be too into ANY GIRL...it drives them away!
 
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