Im 16yrs and im extremely shy, i havnt had any exp with girls due to this. Ive been called handsome and cute(i dont think i am, i think im pretty ugly). Ok this is kind of a long story so id appreciate it if you read it.Thanks for reading it this far btw, Ok, its the first day of college and the most beautiful girl as been giving me looks, im really into her and ive stared at her alot lol. Shes in 2 of my classes and i sit diagnolly right behind her with 3 of my other friends and some girl. She kept turning around trying to make conversation with my other friend and kept glancing at me, im really quiet so i was just sitting there while she was talking. And then so on she kept giving me loads of signs that shes interested like making deep eye contact when i speak, like ill be having a conversation with my friend and she will quickly turn around and stare at me, i feel really weird when she does this so i stop talking immediately, i think she was trying to find out more about me. Also i think i overheard her talking about me, she said "i like him but his really quiet", but my close friend who sits next to me is quiet so i thought she was talking about him, but then me and my close friend sat next to our 2 other friends across the classroom(group work). Then i caught her and her friend staring across the class room in my direction i look beside me to see if they were staring at my friend but he was asleep, they then giggled. She also asks me unecessary questions, like in english i was chosen to read(i hate reading aloud) and while i was reading out to the class she says what page am i reading on, i noticed that she was on the same page as us. I told her anyway. Also her friends keeps sitting next to me in this kinda lounge everyone goes to, trying to strike a conversation. Also she i heard from 2 of my other friends whos in her classes that she complimented me while i wasnt there and asking around to see if i had Facebook.(i dont,i just stick to texting). Its been 3 months and i havnt had the courage to have a single conversation with her, only brief discussions about school work, like "Have we got homework".Only a like twice i had a short conversation bout something other than school work, she asked me if i find it romantic kissing a girl while its raining, So as i was saying i havnt had the courage to even say hi, she always says it to me when she sees me and my throat dries up and i just wave or do a peace sign(i know its lame but thats all i could do in that situation). And ive been faced with some problems, 1. This guy has been hanging around her alot and even has her phone number, she says shes not interested in him but im not sure, they seen pretty cosy 2. In the class where i sit diagonally right behind her, the girl i sit next to reminds me of my sister abit so i really get along with her, she deminishes my shyness so i act joke around and stuff, so shes always laughing, and i the girl i like always turns around and gives the other girl an evil eye(maybe she thinks im not interested in her and im interested in the other girl. She also laughs at everything i say, (she eaves drops on my conversation). She says im really funny and i dont even know it, but i say like ordinary things and she laughs. Its been 3 months and know its the chrismas holidays i havnt even got her number, im really worried ill lose her because it seems like shes really moved on and maybe interested in the other guy. Maybe because i seem boring because im quiet around her, but im really outgoing when im with my friends. She the most beautiful girl in college and she acted differently around me. All the guys are pursueing her, What should i do before it too late!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
ok..this girl waited on you & you didnt take the chance...its not to late its just going to be harder now that other guys are upping their game!
my advice...just be really flirty & do little things like holding a door & complimenting her & after a few days of intense flirting ask for her number....then after another few days, invite her to see a movie ? & hopefully after that your on your way
my advice...just be really flirty & do little things like holding a door & complimenting her & after a few days of intense flirting ask for her number....then after another few days, invite her to see a movie ? & hopefully after that your on your way