The guy I've been casually seeing/getting to know texted me yesterday to let me know he just got back from his 3 week vacation to see his family. We talked a bit over text and then he went out with his friend who drove back with him. When I told him over IM today that should get together this week, I never got a response. Considering while he was gone he told me we would get together and talk about where things stand with us when he is back, I would assume that means he does want to see me. I'm sure his friend is still in town with him, so maybe he is just busy
Also, other times we have gone out it has been last minute- i.e. him asking if I wanted to go out late afternoon/evening and then making plans from there. Maybe he just isn't the type to plan ahead and/or likes to be in control of that aspect? Type B personality?
Bottom line- does the contact the day he is back from vacation indicate he is interested and plans to see me when he has time? Should I invite him to grab dinner and a couple beers or something in a day or 2, or wait for him?
Also, other times we have gone out it has been last minute- i.e. him asking if I wanted to go out late afternoon/evening and then making plans from there. Maybe he just isn't the type to plan ahead and/or likes to be in control of that aspect? Type B personality?
Bottom line- does the contact the day he is back from vacation indicate he is interested and plans to see me when he has time? Should I invite him to grab dinner and a couple beers or something in a day or 2, or wait for him?