We met through a mutual friend at a party 9 months ago & have continued chatting online since. We've had a few attempts to meet up but always fell through due to work schedules & I was away for a while. He kept saying he really wanted to meet. Finally we did today for an hour. He was v nice to me, went to an art expo & he often put his arm around me. He had to go back to work & he asked what I was up to later. I said 'no plans'. He said 'well, I'll be in xxx bar meeting a few friends, you're welcome to come by'. So I said, 'maybe & if not, we'll chat'. Anyhow do you think he's just being friendly? I'm very attracted to him but I didn't go into the bar in case he's just being friendly whereas I like him. I know we'll chat in a day or two so we'll have a chance to meet again if he wants.