I was wondering what your thoughts were on this? I've been married nine years to my husband who is an Officer in the Army. During our marriage he has always looked at porn, but I didn't really mind. I only didn't want him corresponding with people over the internet with regards to sex etc. He did eventually get an account with adult frienfinder....just to look at porn, he says. He knew that crossed the line and deleted his account when I found out.
Anyway, he was sent to Iraq for 15 months. During which he joined a swingers website, and I didn't know. During his deployment, I sent him nude and very naughty photos of myself. I never dreamed that he would pass them out to his "friends" that he met on the swingers site. He had been doing this the whole time he was there and I had no clue. He told these people what I would do to them sexually. He even told them my name. He also sent a naughty video that we made when he came home on leave to people. I found all of this out the night he returned home from Iraq. It was all on his computer. Emails saying that he had new photos of the wifey, and asking if anyone wanted to trade. He had even saved a picture of some guy jerking off to my pics. He even sent the last batch of pics out to people the day he returned home before I met up with him. I feel so violated, he knew that those were for his eyes only. Is what he did Illegal???? Invasion of privacy, defamation. Could he be kicked out of the Army for this? Or would it be a slap on the wrist?
Anyway, he was sent to Iraq for 15 months. During which he joined a swingers website, and I didn't know. During his deployment, I sent him nude and very naughty photos of myself. I never dreamed that he would pass them out to his "friends" that he met on the swingers site. He had been doing this the whole time he was there and I had no clue. He told these people what I would do to them sexually. He even told them my name. He also sent a naughty video that we made when he came home on leave to people. I found all of this out the night he returned home from Iraq. It was all on his computer. Emails saying that he had new photos of the wifey, and asking if anyone wanted to trade. He had even saved a picture of some guy jerking off to my pics. He even sent the last batch of pics out to people the day he returned home before I met up with him. I feel so violated, he knew that those were for his eyes only. Is what he did Illegal???? Invasion of privacy, defamation. Could he be kicked out of the Army for this? Or would it be a slap on the wrist?