I will try and make this quick!
I met this girl in college. Absolutely beautiful, stunning, friendly AWESOME!!! Anyways, when I first seen her at the beginning of the class, I was petrified by her. Completely at a loss of words, it took me almost half the semester to start talking to her. But we did start talking, and actually she is the one who has initiated most of our communication!!! She, like I said is very friendly, and she is receiving a constant barrage of men trying to court her, and take her out etc..... And they all do this in the same, boring....typical way. They feed her compliments CONSTANTLY!!! I on the other hand. recognize that in order for me, and probably them to have a chance, you need to be creative, ad treat her like a human, not some beautiful face. So I have taken the time to get ti know her, her interests, and her background, all the while we have created "tension" between us. You know good, tension.
Anyways, all that being said, we have been talking to each other more and more often. Whenever she has an opportunity she invites me along, and she involves me in her conversations. And this actually brings me to some gray areas that are concerning me. They concern me because I actually am beginning to really like her... a lot. I find myself thinking about her, she is flooding my thoughts. I haven't felt this way about someone in a very, very long time. So as you can see, I really want to develop a relationship with this person.
So here is the problems, and where I need advice. It started exactly a week ago, Last week, she invited me along to go out to the bar with her. She wanted e to meet some of her friends. I wanted ti and I was excited. The only problem was that I had to work that night. So I decided that I would call her if I got out early enough. I called her around 930 that night to ask her if she was still on. She said she was, and would be there soon. I texted her back to let her know that I had bumped into an old friend, and he was coming along with me, and that I hope she didn't mind. A few seconds later she texted me back that her friends couldn't go anymore, so she didn't know if she was going to anymore at that point. I told her not to worry about it, bc I was with an old buddy. Well, she txted me back and said she was going to meet us up, if I didn't mind, and I told her to come along if she wanted. Well.... she never showed. The next day I asked her what happened to her, and she said that she was sorry but she fell asleep. I asked some female friends of mine, what they thought. They said that she probably didn't want to be a "third wheel" between two guy friends who were catching up. Is this true???
Next. Earlier this week, a guy in our class asked her out to lunch. It was our very last day for the semester, and she said yes. BUT. Once she said yes to him, she asked me if I wanted to go along with them. So I did, OBVIOUSLY, bc I want her to be mine!!! HAHAHA. Anyways we get there, and she sat next to me. We had good conversation blah blah, and that was it. But this is important, because like I said, she is trying to insert me into her activities as much as possible. At least this is how I see it. Plus it is obvious that this other guy was interested in her, and she knew it. I feel like she was sending a message to me, and him. What do you think?
After lunch, I called her up, and asked her out this next week. She said Yes!!! So we have a date this next week. She didn't just agree when I asked her out with a simple yes. She said "Absolutely" as if to say she has been waiting for me to ask her. What do you think about this? Also she was telling me how excited she was for our date. (By the way, this took place yesterday)
Lastly, I am brought to today. Today while I was at work, she texted me and again, she wanted me to go out with her and et some beers with her. I told her that I would let her know when I get off work, I depended on when I would get out. She said that she had to work until 9 anyways so that was fine. Well I texted her when I got out, and asked her if she was still up for it. She said that she wasn't expecting to work s late, and that she needed to get up and go back to work early in the morning and she needed her rest. My brain said WTF!!! This is why I need your insight ladies. You ladies play these mind tricks, and I don't know what you are trying to accomplish HAHAHA!!!. Anyways, I have been told that she does this so that I think about her, and thus have to miss her. And also I have been told that it is a test to see how much I am willing to chase her. Anyways Ladies. I need your advice, and insight to these mind games. Also Any tips on what I SHOULD DO, to peak her curiosity, and her interest in me. What can I do to make her brain go crazy for me, like mine is going crazy fro her?!?!?!?!??! Help Ladies!!!!
I met this girl in college. Absolutely beautiful, stunning, friendly AWESOME!!! Anyways, when I first seen her at the beginning of the class, I was petrified by her. Completely at a loss of words, it took me almost half the semester to start talking to her. But we did start talking, and actually she is the one who has initiated most of our communication!!! She, like I said is very friendly, and she is receiving a constant barrage of men trying to court her, and take her out etc..... And they all do this in the same, boring....typical way. They feed her compliments CONSTANTLY!!! I on the other hand. recognize that in order for me, and probably them to have a chance, you need to be creative, ad treat her like a human, not some beautiful face. So I have taken the time to get ti know her, her interests, and her background, all the while we have created "tension" between us. You know good, tension.
Anyways, all that being said, we have been talking to each other more and more often. Whenever she has an opportunity she invites me along, and she involves me in her conversations. And this actually brings me to some gray areas that are concerning me. They concern me because I actually am beginning to really like her... a lot. I find myself thinking about her, she is flooding my thoughts. I haven't felt this way about someone in a very, very long time. So as you can see, I really want to develop a relationship with this person.
So here is the problems, and where I need advice. It started exactly a week ago, Last week, she invited me along to go out to the bar with her. She wanted e to meet some of her friends. I wanted ti and I was excited. The only problem was that I had to work that night. So I decided that I would call her if I got out early enough. I called her around 930 that night to ask her if she was still on. She said she was, and would be there soon. I texted her back to let her know that I had bumped into an old friend, and he was coming along with me, and that I hope she didn't mind. A few seconds later she texted me back that her friends couldn't go anymore, so she didn't know if she was going to anymore at that point. I told her not to worry about it, bc I was with an old buddy. Well, she txted me back and said she was going to meet us up, if I didn't mind, and I told her to come along if she wanted. Well.... she never showed. The next day I asked her what happened to her, and she said that she was sorry but she fell asleep. I asked some female friends of mine, what they thought. They said that she probably didn't want to be a "third wheel" between two guy friends who were catching up. Is this true???
Next. Earlier this week, a guy in our class asked her out to lunch. It was our very last day for the semester, and she said yes. BUT. Once she said yes to him, she asked me if I wanted to go along with them. So I did, OBVIOUSLY, bc I want her to be mine!!! HAHAHA. Anyways we get there, and she sat next to me. We had good conversation blah blah, and that was it. But this is important, because like I said, she is trying to insert me into her activities as much as possible. At least this is how I see it. Plus it is obvious that this other guy was interested in her, and she knew it. I feel like she was sending a message to me, and him. What do you think?
After lunch, I called her up, and asked her out this next week. She said Yes!!! So we have a date this next week. She didn't just agree when I asked her out with a simple yes. She said "Absolutely" as if to say she has been waiting for me to ask her. What do you think about this? Also she was telling me how excited she was for our date. (By the way, this took place yesterday)
Lastly, I am brought to today. Today while I was at work, she texted me and again, she wanted me to go out with her and et some beers with her. I told her that I would let her know when I get off work, I depended on when I would get out. She said that she had to work until 9 anyways so that was fine. Well I texted her when I got out, and asked her if she was still up for it. She said that she wasn't expecting to work s late, and that she needed to get up and go back to work early in the morning and she needed her rest. My brain said WTF!!! This is why I need your insight ladies. You ladies play these mind tricks, and I don't know what you are trying to accomplish HAHAHA!!!. Anyways, I have been told that she does this so that I think about her, and thus have to miss her. And also I have been told that it is a test to see how much I am willing to chase her. Anyways Ladies. I need your advice, and insight to these mind games. Also Any tips on what I SHOULD DO, to peak her curiosity, and her interest in me. What can I do to make her brain go crazy for me, like mine is going crazy fro her?!?!?!?!??! Help Ladies!!!!