We're 18 and best friends. Spending pretty much every day together. But alot of things he says and the way he is around me makes me feel like he's got feelings for me. And i think i have feelings for him too. But its weird, because ive never felt like this about a guy before and i wouldnt even say im bisexual. im not 100% sure whether he could be though. Somehow though, i think that the way he feels about me, he's never felt like that about a girl before. But Im just not sure whether we just really care about each other as friends.
a few months ago he told one of my girl friends when he was drunk that he loved me and that he wanted to have sex with me. he's said that i make him feel safe. he spoons me, plays with my boobs and always puts his hands on my hips. he could do this with his other girlfriends though, i dont know. or maybe he just does it with me because im a lesbian and its not like id get turned on OR freaked out. he always hooks up with boys though and ive seen it. i just think that as friends we're really really close and im confused as to what my feelings actually are towards him and vice versa.
has anyone ever been in this situation? is it normal between lesbians and gays to feel really close to each other?
a few months ago he told one of my girl friends when he was drunk that he loved me and that he wanted to have sex with me. he's said that i make him feel safe. he spoons me, plays with my boobs and always puts his hands on my hips. he could do this with his other girlfriends though, i dont know. or maybe he just does it with me because im a lesbian and its not like id get turned on OR freaked out. he always hooks up with boys though and ive seen it. i just think that as friends we're really really close and im confused as to what my feelings actually are towards him and vice versa.
has anyone ever been in this situation? is it normal between lesbians and gays to feel really close to each other?