I work in a call centre like environment and we get to sit next to each other. Recently I have got a crush or love for a girl who sits next to me and I'v been working with her for the last 4 years but now I'v developed something unusual and now I expect her to treat me in the same way she treats others. For example she really likes guys who have a sense of humour and wit to make her laugh and also she hits them and jabs them and laugh with them together but also she jokes with me too but not that much. The other thing is she is only 23 and Im 37.
She has a boy friend too and he is known to me but he is not working with us.Im really worried and upset and also im really jealous when she moves with others and also now she is away from me sitting next to another guy and they are having a good time laughing and hitting each other....
Jealousy,anxiety,anger and all other negative feelings seem to ruin my career and family life these days. Also I have told her about my feelings and she told she will treat me in the same way but still she is the same although once in a way she makes me happy with a joke and talk to me for a while to make me satisfied. Pls help me to come out of this mess as I feel I have fallen for her and I know its difficult to easily forget as I have got experiences previously like this. Thanks to all of you my friends and have a nice day.
She has a boy friend too and he is known to me but he is not working with us.Im really worried and upset and also im really jealous when she moves with others and also now she is away from me sitting next to another guy and they are having a good time laughing and hitting each other....
Jealousy,anxiety,anger and all other negative feelings seem to ruin my career and family life these days. Also I have told her about my feelings and she told she will treat me in the same way but still she is the same although once in a way she makes me happy with a joke and talk to me for a while to make me satisfied. Pls help me to come out of this mess as I feel I have fallen for her and I know its difficult to easily forget as I have got experiences previously like this. Thanks to all of you my friends and have a nice day.