Martial arts for gay people?

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paula1

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I am not trolling or anything. I am the way i am. I have been doing Wrestling and brazilian jujitsu for a while now for 2 yrs.

I absolutely love it. But i am the way i am. I havent told no one in my class.

This really hot guy who assists the teacher trains their. Sometimes he spars with me. Even when i try all that comes to my head is his nice blond hair and blue eyes and his muscular body against me when we train.

He doesn't help the situation he acts very very kind and friendly with me. (But hes straight)

I try to be a professional and put it out. But sometimes i get worried incase he notices my wood. Also another guy I find hot also trains their.

So what could i do? I cant seem to focus when i train with them? All my moves end up rubbished because i am only thinking about one thing?

What should i do? Please no jokes please? But i am the way i am. I havent told no one in my class.
 
Well I used to take a judo class with this girl I had a crush on, and we practiced together a lot. Just remember you're there to train, not to flirt, focus on the training and don't let your mind wander off on other things.
 
I would suggest that you try to arrange your training to be with either girls, or guys you find less attractive. I just started seibukan jujutsu, and I completely understand the problem with finding a certain sempai just a touch more interesting than is appropriate for his complete straightness. The thing to do is just try to find someone else to train against, if you can. If you can't, take a breath, and try to imagine this person as someone else entirely.
 
Dude just act professional in class and never flirt with a guy you know is straight. I would think a "martial arts for homosexuals" class would be quite offensive to gay and straight alike. We're supposed to be integrated aren't we?
 
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