Maybe I deserve all these hurtful rumors that I get?

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Matt

Active member
I'm starting to feel that I just deserve all these hurtful rumors and remarks about me............

I don't know why...and why so abruptly but people are starting to call me gay, f*g, loser........

just because I'm good looking and I don't have a girlfriend (because I don't want one right now) and that I always hang around with this guy who people also call gay.....which he is not.
(I'm not bragging just telling so that you understand me)

my friends sometimes ask me? "Do you have a girlfriend?/Who do you like?"
I'll say "no one at this time?" then right after that they'll say "Are you a f*cking f*g?" then I'll say "No." they'll say "Good that you're not a f*g because I punch gay people.I don't like guys wanting a d*ck inside their a*s"

First, I say I am not because I am not...I'm bi.....

and second I don't tell them that I am bi because I know what will happen.......they hate gay people but if i tell them I am bi..they would never see the difference




Help me? IT hurts really.....
or how do I at least keep my secret...and not be hurt by their comments
 
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RedFox1

New member
Seriously I don't think those people are your friends. A friend doesn't make fun of you for being bi or gay. Personally, I don't believe in hiding who you are but if you're not ready to fully come out, you don't have to. Do it on your own time.
 
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Jack

Active member
looks like you need new friends. if they're not gonna accept you for you bi straight gay then they're not ur friends
 
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markd

Member
Wow, your 'friends' sound like total jerks. Perhaps even a bit unstable. I would watch my back around them, they sound ready to fly off the handle.

I'd maybe try doing the whole solitary thing for a while, and cut the cancerous growths out of my life. It's better to be alone than keeping toxic people around. I'd rather be lonely or friendless, personally.

I don't even get where they get off asking if you're gay only because you don't have a girlfriend. A lot of people are lame and not worth dating...
 
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eeeCoolWhipeee

New member
No.....u dont deserve it, but i dont think u should com-out either, IF ur skool is really like that...see, when i came out(like a month ago), my friends really didnt care AND there are other gay\bi guys at my skool, but not alot.....but still u get the point....The same thing happened to me....my friends would ask me : So, do u like any1???? and id be like : No....not at the moment....but that went on 4 like 2 years!!!!!!!!hahahaahha Or my friends would be like WTF dont u have a gf already???? and id say the SAME thing....

but to stop the comments....mabey u should get a gf.....after all ur bi....u have ALOT more choice....AND dont even say that not 1 girl catches ur eye....cause women arent like the women in magizines, so get used to the average looking girl!!!!! srry to be so harsh, but to me u sound gay, not bi....cause if i was bi id DEF. be able to find a gf....cause there're SO many girls outside of skool or in my skool!!!
 
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