Meet my ex boyfriend a few days ago and now my best friend is going on a date

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DaniellaAlexander

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with him. What the hell? A couple of days ago I met my ex boyfriend when I was in a bookstore with my friend. I haven't seen him in almost a year and he insisted on paying for my book which was sweet of him. And he looked damn good. He had lost about 10-15 pounds and grown a beard. My best friend who was with me asked him if he wanted to take a coffee with us which he did. And while I was in the little girls room she asked him out, and he said yes.

What the hell? How could she do that? That is my ex. I don't want to see anyone with him, let alone her. A few weeks before that we were ironicly talking about dating each other ex boyfriends. Just some girl talk. And I said that I don't have any feelings for any of my ex boyfriends. And if anyone came along she is more then welcome to go for it.

I want to tell her that I don't want her to go. But she hasn't had a guy for months and I am happy for her at the same time. But this is my ex. Just the thought of her kissing him makes me feel really bad. How do I deal with this? What if they happen to have a long lasting relationship? I swear, I can't take that.
 
what r u like 12 hes not ur bf no so he can date eneone he wants to and its not right to tell ur frend thet she cant date him and judgeing from the way u talked about him above u still like him if u know it or not
 
well first of all she is a bad friend for dating your ex anyways!! that totally broke the whole "girl code" thing cuz best friends dont date their other best friends ex boyfriends or girlfriends thats just a no-no!! Plus, i think you should just tell her about how you feel and maybe she will understand. Tell her to put herself in your shoes and see how she feels. I know how you feel cuz i have been there and went through this just last month and it really hurts. But if she doesnt understand you and she goes out on a date with him and stays in a long term relationship with him then she is not your true best friend.
 
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