more detail on my resolved sexuality question?

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violetelime

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Nerdie, any physical indicators of 'gayness' are absolute hoopla
And the type of music you like, I don't think that defines you as gay in any way either :/
If you're trying to convince yourself that you're gay, then theres probably a reason for it, because maybe you are and you just want to be free with yourself? (okay I know I sound like a hippie singing in the wind :o) But its true breaking away from the ideals of reality you've grown up with to understand who you are is painful. confusing, but worth it.
Maybe you shouldnt try to reason it out like this. Though I know its a HUGE LIFE CHANGING discovery i know >=D, but how about just accepting it as a part of you and go from there. That way I guarantee you'll discover the truth or w/e stereotype you fit into.
Btw does it really matter what label you slap on love? You love who you love and no one should ever have to justify that to anyone else, especially not themselves.
In your last question you said "i dont know if that makes me gay or not", well nothing makes you gay hun you're born gay :)
 
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coolnerdie

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old question:
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AlR__3dmetTLWntDgWSyw7Pty6IX;_ylv=3?qid=20081107183406AAi6HXN

the deatails i forgot to add was when i was 11-12 i dated a guy named dean at summer camp for about a week. when elementary camp was over he left and i dated a rebound guy named jake. when i was with both i couldn't kiss or even hug them i think it is cause they were both a year younger than me but i really liked dean (not so much jake) so to ask the same question am i bi/lesbian?
i'm not trying to convince myself i'm anything i just want to know what i am
 
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PastorHoe

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You cant be straight, straight is only when you like guys, how can u call yourself straight when you have crushes on girls

PRobably a lesbian


But more like a strong Bi towards girls and less on guys
 
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