...Scary-WHY? Help? She is 17 and going to be a Junior in H.S, He is 12 and going into the 7th Grade. They have an older brother 19 that doesn't live with us anymore because he failed to follow the rules, graduate and took up a drug habit. I would think after watching the struggle I have been through with him and Doing my best to protect them from the drama along with Working MY butt off, not having a social life so that I can spend Quality time with them, I don't drink, I don't smoke and my door doesn't revolve with ANY Men or Women for that matter...YET, they argue from the Minute they wake up until the minute they go to sleep and usually only get alone when they are in separate rooms...I am ready to scream- No I have been screaming, talking to, grounding..I don't use Corporal Punishment, but Behavioral Boot camp is Looking real good to me right now.