give the new born some warm milk or something to make it sleep. Then when you know he will be home that night, start off with a massage and listen and comment as to how his week has been. Youd be suprised how much stress he'd be under. Then, if he's up for it completely strip and do as they do. You dont need to make it better, just listen and thats what men want more then sex is a woman that will listen to his mindless winging