My boyfriend of eight months hits me when i answer him back or when i yell and

[Susan]

we argue. he says he never hit? He claims he never hit another girl but i push his buttons he also took all of my shorts and told me i cant wear them because they are too short he is a control freak and likes everything his way he is 41 never married and unemployed i love him but im afraid of him he makes fun of how slow i walk how i dress how i do chores how i talk etc i can be argumentative but he hits me in the face and even clogged my ear up he had his hands on my mouth and nose and said do i want to die because i called him a name he is black caribean american and i am white

 

[sara]

you need to tell someone.
If you don't, it would get much worse and he could end up doing some permanent life-threatening damage to you. You could either go 1) to the police or 2) you could go find a counselor or someone who could help to fix the problem. Therapy would be good for the both of you, and possibly save your relationship and make it better.

 

[JessBabes]

you shouldnt be with, go to the police immediently. this is wrong and you shouldnt be treated like this.

 

[RcmpWarrior]

Dump him. He's a shmuck.

 

[needsomehelphere]

that is a very abusive relationship. you need to leave.