My cousin is very disrespectful to me?

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My guy cousin and i are pretty close. But he is very disrespectful. Like if we're talking and he disagrees with me he'll be all F*** You B****. I mean i love him a lot and i think he cares about me but when he talks to me like that i think that he just doesn't like me or care what happens to me. Do you think he doesn't care about me or do you think its a "tough" guys way of showing love and i have to get used to it? Thanks and please no mean answers. O and btw hes almost always around his friends and that's how they speak to each other.
 
Do you really think that 'fuck you bitch' is an expression of love? If somebody walked up to you on the street and said that would you put up with it? Didn't think so. So why put up with that from him? He is being rude and disrespectful. He only speaks to you like because you allow it.

Next time he does it, say to him, 'look, you know I love ya lots, but please don't swear at me and call me names, it is demeaning and it hurts me' or something like that. He will get the message, and he will love and respect you 10 times more than he ever did in the past.

Stand your ground and command respect.
 
I guess I'm tough I don't know the definition of tough this week. But I do not talk to my wife or any woman like that.
 
If he respects you then you should tell him that you find his foul language offensive. My own daughter will call me and complain using all kinds of expletives and when I finally say " I'm pretty sure I got what you meant without all the cuss words you are using. I find it offensive and wish you wouldn't do that while talking to me". Yeah, she gets mad, but then she apologizes. I realize it 's not me that she's directing it at, it's the situation. But it still affects me. Let him know that it makes you uncomfortable.
 
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