My dad smokes in one tiny room!?

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avsrule247

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I feel sorry for you, you are so young and your parents do not have the right to make you choose between who you want to see, and they do not have the right to tell you that YOU must put up with their crap in order to see them (ie your dads room). You need to talk to them both that it is making you upset that you want to see both of them but the circumstances are very undesirable. If they loved you like you love them, then they should return the favourite and see you on your OWN terms instead of going to their gross house.

All the best.
 
I know this doesn't really sound fair but, My dad smokes in one tiny room. I got there every weekend to stay and he lives with 3 other guys. He lives in ONE room that we hang around in. The room is very damp and un-hygienic. He smokes ALL the time and when I go out with people I always smell damp and of cigarettes! Its awful and I really cannot live like this. I have tried to tell him but, He just says Ohh well... If you wanna see me you have to go through it... I really dont wanna stop seeing my dad I just have to because my mum is always going out.... Please help me? How do i get rid of the smoke smell from my hair and clothes and what should I do about the weekends with my dad?

Thanks Charlotte, 13yrs old :)
 
Im sorry. My mom did that too. No offense but you're dad shouldn't Make you make a choice between smelling like smoke and seeing him. Maybe suggest he go smoke outside or with a window open? say it's starting to make you sick.


I'm sorry I couldnt help more... I know how you feel, though :(
 
ask your mom if your dad can stay at your house, while she goes out..tell her you are getting too old to be staying in a room with your father, and three other men in the house, and it's time if she's going out he can stay with you, until she get's back..that seem's like a better arrangement to me, how about you?
 
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