My ex has a funny way of showing he still wants to be friends..?

[Cafeaulait]

He broke up with me a year ago. (He is a widower, I'm separated 3 years). We dated 6 months. It was very, very hard for me, yet we remained "friends"..I even watched as he met another and still dates her. Hurt like hell. But knew that I was not 100% free due to complicated separation/divorce..three teens, plus many properties to be sold dependent on market conditions etc etc. He;s been in contact with me over the year since we are on the same sports team, but in the past month or so, hes been texting more (including sending pix of his baby nephew, texts about where in the country he's working, bringing up things from OUR past and things that pertain to things I like/don't like etc all in fun). He's called a few times and chatted on the phone, yet, what irritates me is that he seems to always bring up WHY we are not together. I DO NOT CARE ANYMORE. He has mentioned this a dozen times and when I asked him why he brings it up, he has no answer. He talks about his gf and how they are training for this run or that run and how he "likes her alot!" ( in spite of the fact that "her son is weird" and "she doesn't talk to her parents" and he "wishes she ate meat" (she vegetarian)) I DONT WANT TO KNOW!! He has, in separate phone calls asked me "are you seeing anyone?" and "have you got your divorce papers yet?". He sent me a youtube video (that was actually initially sent by his gf to him!) by Gotye "somebody that I used to know"??!! I want to be his friend, but the tone of our telephone conversation is leaving me like I meant nothing to him...especially when he says that "he doesn't have family in this country" and he "needs companionship"...What do you make of this whole scenario? Serious answers only please.