My Girl friend smokes a lot of cannabis I don't know what to do?

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Well we been going out for 3 months but im only realizing now how much she smokes, she smokes it daily when she is not with me as we live apart in our own places, but shes smokes 3 or 4 joints at least 3-4 times a week, she's been doing for easily 5 years now shes 20 nearly 21 and it sort of annoys me but i cant exactly make her stop because i made her give up cocaine but she wasnt a regular user, i dont know what to do :(
 
maybe suggest she could cut down, as your quality time with her when she is stoned just isn't the same? if you notice things, like she could be angrier in the mornings after smoking, or too chilled out when stoned to really do much, then maybe point that out.
on ya for getting her to kick coccain's butt!!!!
 
Do you LLOOVVEE her? If you just fancy her screw it. There's no point trying to change her. Just a sad breakup. If you LLOOVVEE her negotiate.
 
You either accept her for who she is, or you leave her. Do not try to change her, this is her choice, not yours.
 
I suggest the following....
That you talk to her when she is sober.
That she gets help in giving up the habit, which wont be easy. The important thing is SHE must want to give up.
Make her understand that drugs ruin peoples lives!
If she does not stop now, what's next?
Try all you can to get her rehabilitated, after that it's her choice.

Best of luck!

Thank You
 
if you care about her then give her an ultimatum. she leaves cannabis or you. of course she will need support, but to be honest she can come off cannabis at anytime. its only psychologically addictive. if you cant do that then request she does not have it around you at any time.
 
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