My girlfriend wont eat in front of me and it may ruin our relationship!!?

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We're both 15, We've been together for nearly 5 months now and we are completely comfortable in every other way but her eating in front of me! We spent a night together naked band did not have sex! Just Fingering & hand job!

We ate together in McDonald's ONCE and she said she never felt so awkward before .. and that was when we were together for 2 weeks! She said she would never eat in front of me again!

Now, Out of the blue she said she "Can't do this anymore" because she can't even eat in front of me! It is a problem, but we never properly tried to fix it! and now she just wants to have a break hoping that will fix it!
She's fond of this idea but doesn't know whether to do it or not! I, however, cannot see this idea working! I REALLY don't want to break and im scared of losing her fully ! Can someone help us in any way?
 
You need to ask her why she doesn't want to eat in front of you. Get to the source of the problem.

Do not listen to the first answer, just cause you are 15 this could still become a long term relationship.

Good luck, hope you work it out
 
heres the thing, it really bothers her so much because she isnt comfortable with you yet! YOU think you are comfortable but she isnt! girl are like that they sdont want to eat in front of thier boyfriends for lact of being embarrassed! Thye might get something in their teeth or have some food hanging and be totally ashamed of themselves! there is no quick fix to this! and time apart definitly wont fix this!! time apart only helps you realize that we arent meant to be together! I say you have a long talk with her and maybe go out with friends together and eat sperately! you sit on one side of the table and her on the other! dont be alone and go out to eat! clearly it isnt working that way! try that and then she will get used to you there and get comfortable! good luck!!! for the record teenagers are all like this!!!
 
this sounds like she has an eating disorder.. confront her about it
 
I don't like eating in front of boys either. I never used to like eating in front of my ex, I found it really awkward. I know how she feels. The longer it goes on like it in a relationship though, the worse it kind of gets. There's not a lot you can do about it, I guess it's gone on for a long time in your relationship that it's hard to put right if even possible :/
It's just embarrassing, I guess she feels the same way. Talk to her more about it.. that's all you can do, if the relationship means that much you'll try and work a way around it.
 
you should deffinately talk to her about it and tell her that even if she grew an extra arm you would still love her and think she is beautiful in every way. tell her that you do not want to lose her and would do anything to keep her.
 
Okay first things first...

1. Nice job on getting an HJ. Very good work.
2. I know it sucks hearing this, but if she randomly said "Can't do this anymore"....then she clearly doesn't like you enough to eat in front of you. I understand you like her, but she has a lot of growing up to do.
3. The best thing you can do right now is tell her that you care about her, and that you also think you two should take a break. SERIOUSLY, tell her that YOU ALSO think it's best if you two took a break for a while. If you do this, it will cause her to think "Wow...this guy is serious...he isn't going to wait around for me. I better decide if I really want to take a break from him, because if I do...then he probably will find someone else."
This is just simple psychology, and it will work.
4. Do NOT call/text her. Make sure if she calls/texts you...that you keep the phone call VERY short...tell her you are busy. If she texts you, do NOT respond back until 1 hour later. This will let her realize that you are busy and your time is valuable. Also...this will make her MISS BEING WITH YOU.

Seriously dude, I know what I'm talking about. Take my advice.
 
Tell her to grow up. She just doesn't want you to see her eating because she's embarrassed. but wtf she can be naked in front of you but not eat?? that's stupid. Tell her to pig out already she knows she wants to.
 
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